G-Spot Insensitivity & Female Orgasm Dysfunction
So often women simply assume it’s okay to not feel “turned on” whenever they want. Some don’t even know their G-spot and clitoris are desensitized, and may even suffer low self-esteem by silently blaming themselves for not having the same sexual experience as others.
A healthy clitoris and G-spot will become engorged with blood when stimulated, enhancing sexual pleasure and orgasm. Exploring the various methods of treating sensitivity issues can lead to finding a satisfactory solution to diminished pleasure.
Hormonal imbalance from birth control pills, low testosterone or DHEA, neurotransmitter disruption, or even a too aggressive vibrator can contribute to a desensitized clitoris, G-spot and overall loss of libido.
Whle most women and their partners have been able to locate the clitoris, the G-spot (named after Dr. Ernst Grafenberg) can be somewhat elusive. Located on the upper facing wall of the vagina, it can best be found by having a partner insert a middle finger and curl it towards them in a “come hither” motion until it senses a nickel-size circle of dimpled flesh.
Most women enjoy a little clitoral foreplay before moving on to the G-spot, but the combination can produce a strong, satisfying orgasm, and for some women, results in a powerful female ejaculation known as “squirting.”
A desensitized G-spot can make it take longer for a woman to achieve orgasm from a thrusting penis, so it’s crucial the man sustains a hard erection throughout without coming first. But the extra effort is rewarded when both come together simultaneously, triggering a ripple of extended mutual pleasure.